Stop chasing attention.
Start attracting your person.
Let me guess — you're starting to wonder what the point was of building all that you've built if you have no one to share it with. Attract My Person will show you how to create genuine, attractive conversations that lead to trust, momentum, and a relationship headed toward marriage. No pickup lines. No performance. Just real connection.
Free community · For ambitious people who want love to match their ambition.
“Relationships make life worth living.”
— Monique, The Modern Day Hitch
Who this is for
You built everything — except the one thing you wanted most.
If you're missing having a best friend to share your ups and downs with — that one person who is loyal to you and in your corner — this is for you. Attract My Person is for single entrepreneurs and busy, financially successful professionals who want a committed relationship and marriage without abandoning their ambitions. We help you start better conversations, keep them engaging, avoid the common mistakes that kill attraction early, and turn those conversations into a confident "yes" when you ask them out.
The real problem
Your problem isn't meeting them.It's knowing what to do when you do.
Pickup lines, performance, matchmaking, and profiling aren't getting you the results you want — because none of them teach you how to create genuine, attractive conversations that lead to trust and relationship potential. If you're missing having a best friend to share your life with, that one loyal person who's truly in your corner, here's what the gap is really costing you:
Awkward Conversations
You freeze or overthink the moment a conversation could go somewhere — and the window closes before it opens.
Fear of Saying the Wrong Thing
You second-guess every word, so you play it safe and come across as guarded instead of genuine.
Coming Home Alone
You can build a business all day, then walk into an empty house wondering what the point was of building all of it if there's no one to share it with.
No One You Truly Trust
You've never had that one person who is loyal to you and in your corner — and the loneliness is starting to feel normal.
Success Without Love
Your ambition paid off everywhere except your personal life, and the gap between what you built and who you share it with is draining your energy.
The 'Alone Forever' Fear
A quiet worry that maybe it's too late — that you missed your chance and this is just how it'll be.
"If you don't risk anything, you risk even more."
-Erica Jong
What changes
After Attract My Person, your life finally matches your ambition.
Imagine coming home to that one person who is loyal to you — a best friend to share your ups and downs with. You feel more grounded, less distracted by loneliness, and more energized in both life and business, because your personal life finally has direction.
Clarity About Your Future Spouse
Know exactly who you're looking for — and why — so you stop wasting time on the wrong people and start recognizing the right one.
Intentional Dating
Date on purpose with a structured process instead of hoping the right person just shows up.
Real Confidence
Feel grounded talking to the people you're drawn to — no freezing, no performing, just natural presence.
Communication Skills
Start conversations that create attraction and keep them engaging past the point most people stall.
Relationship Skills
Build and maintain genuine romantic love — the kind that actually lasts past the honeymoon phase.
Preparation for Marriage
Move toward a serious relationship, marriage, and family with intention — not by accident.
“If you ain't chasing your dreams, who's dreams are you going to chase? What's the alternative?”
The Flagship Framework
The Date to Marry Framework
If you're missing having a best friend to share your life with, this is the path. A structured process designed to help you work toward finding, dating, and marrying a compatible partner — while keeping your standards and making thoughtful decisions. Powered by the I AM SWEET 8-step method.
The I AM SWEET Method
Tap each letter to explore the step.
I — Identify
Get crystal clear on the kind of partner who actually fits your life, values, and long-term vision — not just who looks good on paper.
The framework supports you in working toward marriage within roughly a year. Marriage within any timeframe is never a guaranteed outcome — it depends on your effort, standards, and circumstances.
How it works
A simple path from single to serious.
The Date to Marry Framework and I AM SWEET process turn dating from a guessing game into a clear, repeatable path — built for busy, ambitious people.
Identify the right partner
Get clear on who actually fits your life, values, and vision — so you stop wasting energy on the wrong people.
Attract naturally
Build conversational presence that draws the right person in — no scripts, no performance, no pickup lines.
Create real connection
Turn attraction into trust and momentum through conversations that make them want to keep choosing you.
Date with intention
Move from 'talking' to intentional dates that actually move you toward a serious relationship.
Build relationship skills
Develop the communication and emotional skills that keep love alive past the honeymoon phase.
Move toward marriage
Make thoughtful, confident decisions that lead you toward marriage and family — on purpose.
The offers
One path. Four ways in.
Start free, go deep, or go all in — every offer is built on the same conversation-first philosophy that sets Attract My Person apart. No matter where you begin, the goal is the same: that one loyal person to share it all with.
Date to Marry Framework
Featuring the I AM SWEET 8-Step Guide
The complete structured process to identify, attract, date, and move toward marrying a compatible partner — while keeping your standards.
- Full I AM SWEET 8-step method
- Intentional dating roadmap
- Communication & relationship skills
- Built for ambitious professionals
Flirt With Fire
Conversation Starters that Attract
A low-ticket mini eBook that teaches you to start natural, confident conversations without cheesy pickup lines — in just 3 days.
- Digital guide + conversation flow chart
- “What to Say Next” prompt sheet
- Get a Date this Weekend 3-day challenge
- Pocket cheat sheet + tracking checklist
Free Community
Where ambitious people gather
Join the free community to learn, connect, and start building the skills that turn conversations into real relationship potential.
- Free to join — no cost, no catch
- Learn the conversation-first approach
- Connect with like-minded professionals
- First step into the Date to Marry path
Premium 1:1 Coaching
Personalized guidance through the framework
For those who want hands-on, personalized support identifying their person and moving through the framework with direct guidance.
- Personalized attraction strategy
- 1:1 guidance through I AM SWEET
- Identify your biggest dating blocks
- Tailored action plan
Watch & learn
Straight from the channel.
Real talk on attraction, conversation, and intentional dating — built for ambitious people who want a best friend and a partner to share their life with, not just more dates.
Proof
Real shifts, real people.
We only share verified, approved results. Here's what members and clients have experienced working with Attract My Person.
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[Client Name] — [Result]
The Modern Day Hitch
Meet the founder
Hi, I'm Monique.
I'm known as The Modern Day Hitch.
I'm the founder of Attract My Person LLC. I built this framework because I watched firsthand what happens when someone has the drive for a great life but never learned the skills to build the relationship that holds it all together — that one loyal person to come home to.
My mom and dad are amazing individuals who never fully figured out how to live their lives together. Anger and contention was common — and it cost them both deeply in their marriage. Communication meant war. No communication turned into every man for himself and life gets hard. Living through paycheck-to-paycheck stress and nearly losing our home, I saw how the inability to have real conversations eroded everything.
That experience made it my mission to master conversations and connections — to build a stronger foundation for relationships. I researched, tested, and developed the Date to Marry Framework and the I AM SWEET method to help ambitious people do the same, so you don't have to build it all and come home alone.
“Your personal life should finally match your ambition. You shouldn't have to choose between the business you're building and the person you want to build it with.”
Monique — Founder, Attract My Person LLC
Questions
Frequently asked.
Primarily single entrepreneurs and busy, financially successful professionals who want a committed relationship and marriage without abandoning their ambitions or business growth. We welcome women and other professionals as the business expands.
No. The entire framework is built around ambitious people. The goal is for your personal life to finally match your ambition — not to slow you down.
The framework is designed for busy schedules. You'll work through it at a pace that fits your life, with small, consistent actions rather than overwhelming overhauls. [EXACT WEEKLY TIME COMMITMENT TO BE ADDED]
You start in the free community, then move through the Date to Marry Framework and the I AM SWEET 8-step method — from identifying the right partner to taking the step toward marriage. You can also book a free strategy call to map your personal path.
Joining the free community is completely free. Flirt With Fire is a low-ticket starter offer, and premium coaching is available for those who want deeper, personalized guidance. [EXACT PRICING TO BE ADDED]
The free community and Flirt With Fire guide are self-study. Premium 1:1 coaching is available separately for those who want hands-on, personalized guidance through the framework.
No. The framework is a structured process designed to help you work toward finding, dating, and marrying a compatible partner within roughly a year while making thoughtful decisions. We do not present marriage within any timeframe as a guaranteed outcome.
This isn't about pickup lines, performance, matchmaking introductions, or simply getting more dates. It's about building genuine attraction through conversation, identifying the right partner for you, and preparing for a lasting marriage.
Your person is out there.Let's help you attract them.
You don't have to keep coming home alone. Join the free community and take the first step of the Date to Marry Framework — no cost, no pressure, just a community of ambitious people learning to build real connection with that one person worth sharing it all with.
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